Stephen's hernia and Mediport surgery is officially scheduled for June 30th. We met with Stephen's surgeon, Dr. Kim, on Monday to go over everything once more and sign off on the consent for surgery. I know it's necessary for him to get his hernia's replaced and for him to get some sort of port for IVs and lab draws, but the reality of him having surgery is now making me have second thoughts. One part of my brain knows that once the hernias are fixed and we have a good way of drawing labs, his dialysis will work better and the doctors will have a better understanding as to what is going on with his electrolytes, his albumin, and his IGG. And that will prevent things like his seizures and from his potassium from getting too high and affecting his heart. But the other side of my brain is thinking that I'm putting him through surgery when it's not completely and 100% necessary (it is necessary, but I feel like we could maybe put it off a little bit longer). I'm just in total conflict with myself.
I guess it's because before he needed surgery to save his life. He would not have survived had we not removed his kidneys. But he's surviving and doing great....right now. We know and we've seen that change in an instant, but he's doing so great this week. What if he goes into surgery and doesn't come out of it? Or say something goes wrong and he collapses a lung or can't come off the ventilator? Or he gets this Mediport and then gets a massive infection or blood clot that goes to his heart? I'll forever blame myself because I'm the one that pushed the Mediport so hard because I'm the one who always has to take him to the hospital for labs. And it's torture! For me and for Stephen.
I just hope that we're making the right decision and say a little prayer that Dr. Kim and the anesthesiologists are on their A++++++ game next Thursday.
We will be admitted to the hospital next Wednesday morning to prepare for surgery and then will probably be there another 5-7 days afterwards until Stephen's been weened off the painkillers and is dialysis is back to 12 hours from 24 hours. Unfortunately, we will be in the hospital for Stephen's 6 month birthday on July 4th. Boooooo!!!